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July 23

Goodbye spaces

Although I don't post often I've decided to make the move to wordpress.  Perhaps it is the motivation I need
to write more.  How does the saying go Change is good! 

oreogeek.wordpress.com
May 16

Healthy Lifestyle?

As the weather has improved and the sun has resurfaced in the city, I have finally awoken from my winter slumber.  As a result Sarah and I decided to go for a walk in the Mid-Town(Yonge/Eglinton) Area.  I am not a big fan of the suburban environment (I need to be less than 25 min. walking from a convenience store) at the same time areas that are solely high density are unappealing to me as well (Can anyone say personal space!).  I really enjoy the way in which commercial, high residential (apartments and condos) and single housing units and blended together apparently seamlessly in this part of the city.  While walking the streets I began to notice that this area was different from other parts of the city I have seen.  Everywhere one looked there were people running, many gyms and fitness centres and a general sense people being active.  I know that across a city like Toronto one can find these things but it just seemed that fitness and activity played a prominent role for the people in this area.  I noticed something else.  There appeared to be significantly fewer people smoking on the streets.  When passing bars, pubs or other places with patios people were gathered smoking, and in front of office buildings people were gathered to smoke, but i still felt that the number of people smoking was lower.  As a smoker myself (one of my many vices)  I  wondered if my observations were valid and if so could they be explained.  Before I begin I want to say that my opinions will be formed on broad generalizations and I am aware of this and to remember that these are just my opinions.  The Mid-Town in particular those not living in apartments represent those that would be considered middle to high income earners.  This increased economic stability enables individuals to focus on other issues including the benefits of a healthy lifestyle.  In contrast those struggling to meet the daily needs of life have less time, money and ability to focus an equal amount of time to these issues.  I think that smoking, poor diet and a lack of emphasis on activity are the result.  I am not suggesting the these issues can simply be divided along lines of class but to suggest that there is no connection at all to me would be wrong.  

April 23

TV for the Mind

It is hard to admit, but I am a TV addict.  As a sports fanatic this has to be the best time of year, the NBA and NHL have just begun their playoffs, the baseball season has just begun and most importantly many of the domestic soccer leagues are concluding their season and the UEFA Champions League will crown their new champion.  Similar to my musical tastes my TV preferences are more diverse.  I'll watch everything, from the educational and informative to the most mindless and ridiculous.  The Maury Povich Show is not beneath my standards.  When I feel inspired to watch a TV show with a little substance I turn to TVO's(TV Ontario) The Agenda with Steve Paikin.  The show is a current events type show, covering a variety of important issues.   The topics can be very Canadian focused but also discuss a global subjects.  What sets this show apart from other current event shows is that each espisode is an hour and usually focuses on two topics.  This provides ample time to delve into each topic in detail.  Nothing bothers me more than the CNN style of journalism in which a guest is given 2 minutes to provide their opinion on a subject and just when the discussion gets interesting, there is no time remaining.  In this society people the need to have things condensed to to quote or soundbite prevents a real examination of the complexity of the issues.  The Agenda's format is better suited to provide background, context and analysis of an issue.  Secondly, the host Steve Paikin is perhaps one of the best hosts of this type of show I have ever seen.  Extremely knowledgeable, unbiased and not afraid to ask the important questions, his ability to keep the conversation on point is incredible.  The roundtable discussion on many shows, especially those involving politicians, tend to be less about discussion and more about an opportunity to "spin" questions for their own interests.  Paikin is able to keep the focus on the relevant issues and the show is able to present a variety of perspectives without coming across as favouring any one particular point of view.  The Agenda also has their show available for download making it very convenient for listeners. 

April 01

Keith and the Girl

I love to watch TV (sometimes too much).  I'll watch anything from sports to documentaries.  I also love the Internet and my computer.  When the wave of podcasting hit a couple of years ago, I dismissed it as a fad and thought it wouldn't have any legs.  While podcasting hasn't taken off as much as many thought it still is around.  One podcast in particular has captured my attention.  Keith and the Girl is comedy podcast revolving around the lives of a couple.  The discuss about all things relevant to their lives. The show takes place in their house and they often bring in many colourful guests.  The show has a very Howard Stern feel, as the pair do not hold back their strong opinions on everything.  Let me warn you that the show is definitely not for everybody as no race, gender, political community etc. is fair game.  But most importantly the show is extremely entertaining.  Many a time have I looked crazy on the subway as I laughed out loud to something being said.  The show is done live with podcasts being mad available every day.  Instead of spending my time listening to music I now find myself waking up every morning to the voices of Keith and the Girl. 

February 11

MP3 Madness

As a Christmas gift to myself I decided to purchase a new MP3 player. Due to my stubbornness I refuse to make the logical choice and grab myself an IPOD.  I realize that things would be so much easier if I were to follow the majority of people and become an Apple convert, but I just can't do it.  With this in mind I began my search.  My requirements were minimal,  I wanted something bigger than my existing 2gb Sandisk Sansa, the ability to play video would be a nice feature but was not a requirement, and finally I wanted something that worked well with music subscription service (not Itunes).  My research basically began and stopped with one website. anythingbutipod.com provided me with more information than I need.  It was funny that there was a community of people whom had the same opinion as me.  I have to admit that I was very close to joining the Ipod army, and at this point I cant provide a good reason why I shouldn't.  The peripherals available for the IPOD are only one of the many advantages Apple has over the competition.  I know people will say, you're just cheap, you don't want to pay the higher price for the IPOD.  Maybe that's true, but I hate the feeling that I'm being pushed to get something not because it may be the best(even though it may be), but simply because it is the best marketed.  In the end decided on the Creative Zen Vision M, and thus far I have not been disappointed.  When it comes time to get something new maybe i'll get the new Itouch, then again maybe I won't.

February 06

Andrea Bargnano!

After a Six month hiatus, oreogeek is back!!!!!! Ok, cool your enthusiasm.  I have watched more than my fair share of Raptors  games this year, and I like many others have been frustrated with the play of Andrea Bargnani. His inconsistent play is very reminiscent of Morris Peterson's time in Toronto.  Many have suggested that it may be time to move Andrea, essentially giving up on him.  I understand the frustration but would not give up on this talented player.  I do think that fans expectations of the 7 footer need to change.  While he does need to utilize his height more to increase his poor rebounding statistics, he will never be a 10+ rebounder.  I think Andrea's biggest problem is that he will never be a good centre, his game is more suited to the power forward position, but the Raptors have one of the best forwards in the game in Chris Bosh.  If the team decides to trade him it should not be because they don't think he will progress, rather it should be because he doesn't fit in with the direction of the team.  I don't think Andrea will ever be a franchise player, but to cat him aside would be a big mistake.

July 07

My Canadian Soccer Rant

For a variety of reasons it has been ages since I last shared a sports opinion.  Last night I ventured into the outer regions of Scarborough to watch my brother's soccer team play.  Within the first 10 minutes it was apparent that my brothers team was outmatched.  His opponents clearly possesed better technique and tactics and a better understanding of the game.  The team my brother plays on is comprised of younger players (its a mens league) which accounts for them being physically overmatched but doesn't explain why their was such a large gap in skill. I immediately began to think of the Canadian men's team at the Under 20 World Cup and many simalarities could be found.  Firstly, there were very few players who had the ability to keep control of the ball.  This has been something i've noticed watching my brother play since he was 5. Often during pre-game warmups you will see the coaches practicing shooting, passing tactics but very rarely will you see a coach that emphasises controlling the ball (By this I mean being able to recieve the pass and keep the ball at your foot).   It's so frustrating watching player recieve the pass only to let the ball run away from them or watching players panic if the ball is not directly at their foot.  Coaches, please spend some time teaching players how to trap the ball and bring it to their feet.  What is also evident is that coaches emphasize tactics much more than creativity.  There are too few players who try to do any unique.   I'm completely in favour of having a strategy but the problem is that in too many games i've seen there is a lack of players who attempt to be creative.  I'm not talking about doing fancy tricks or trying to dribble past the entire team, but more about having players whom are not afraid to dribble past a defender in order to create opportunities. My brother thankfully has always bee a good team player always following the team system and never tried to play the role of hero. But  I'm always telling my brother that he has to use his skills a little more and be more creative.  But I think that all the coaching over the years has created some doubt in his mind.  Coaches when you have young players don't attempt to curtail their progress and creative development.  These are only some of the complaints i've had.  I think it is evident by the way Canada has played in this World Cup that there needs to be a change in the way coaches teach the game in this country. However on a positive note i'd like to to congratulate the National mens team on their great play in the Gold Cup.  I think that was the first time i had watched a Canadian team play with the ball, under control, making smart passes, I hope it's a sign of good things to come. Perhaps in the future watching a Canadian soccer team play will not be as frustrating as it it is now.
June 29

Personal Reflections

It has been over a month since I returned from my trip to Korea and therefore over a month that I have been staying by myself at home (Sarah stayed in Korea for an extra month and a half).  I have come to realize a couple of things from my month alone.  First, living alone is not so easy.  While being alone has provided some much needed solitary time (I know i'm anti-social), having to shop, do laundry, cook, cleaning and all the other aspects of single life I had not really previously experienced and I don't really find them enjoyable.  It's not that Sarah did all these things all the time but it's different when there is no one else to do some of these things and there is not the same sense of self-reliance.  My fridge is barron and i've noticed that i'm eating out more often. I realize that I have come to rely on Sarah for a lot, and not that i'm lost being alone but it is definietly different having to survive on your own, especially when you've been a 'couple' for so long.  This leads to my second point, i've realized that my closeness to Sarah has coincided with a distance with my friends.  Not that this has occurred intentionally but I definietly do not keep in touch with my friends in the same way I previously did.  I'm not sure if it's due to all us growing up and having our own new lives but a distance has been created. I'm not blaming anyone or complaining about this situation, i'm merely making an observation.  I have never been a person with a wide circle of friends (for evidence check my facebook!) but I have always valued those friends I do have. Most of the people I truly consider friends I have known for the majority of my life and so no matter How infrequently we meet I am confident they will continue to be close to me but now after so much time without communication and with the demands of daily life I'm unsure it is possible to resume a friendship as previously experienced. I've tried recently to make an effort to maintain communication and hopefully  things will change. 
June 11

Random thoughts on Korea

It has been about three weeks since I returned from my trip to Korea.  I have to say it was one of the best experiences in my life. 
I'm not sure if it was that fact that Sarah was there or that I simply needed a break from the daily grind but the trip was so relaxing
and comforting. While only there two weeks I made some observations about Korea.  I don't anyone to think that the what i'm about to say is meant to be offensive its simply my observations (if i'm off base let me know in comments).
 
1.  Koreans have a strange fascination with English.  Parents push their kids to take English classes. Aparently english tests are required for certain jobs.  All of this is well and good except NOBODY uses english.  I'm not complaining i'm just wondering why there is such a desire to learn english in a country where nobody uses it.  Very strange to me.
 
2.  I spent almost all my time in Seoul so my next point my be off base, but Koreans love fashion but this love of fashion is not limited to females.  You would not catch me in any of the shirts that they were selling in the mens stores. I'm all for style but I think the obsession with comercial brand names even surpasses North America.  Consumerism is almost a way of life for a lot of young people. While there are a lot of fakes there are also a lot of young people walking around with 1000s of dollars worth of clothing.  How they can afford it is beyond me and why they need it is even more difficult for me to understand. 
 
3.  North Americans are much larger in size compared to Koreans but man can Koreans eat!.  I have never felt so full in my life and oftenI was the first one to stop eating. Young, old, male or female it didn't matter they all out ate me.  It wasn't that I didn't like the food (i've been eating Korean food for 4 years now), I simply couldn't keep up. 
 
4.  I saw my share of non-Koreans while in Seoul.  I assumed that they probably were working as English teachers.  (Let me preface my next observation by saying I not trying to sound arrogant).  Many of these teachers appeared to be dating Koreans.  Now I understand that a person while working in Korea would meet/date a Korean.  But why did so many of the non-Koreans that I saw look so unattractive and a lot of them looked like they were small town country people.  But most curious of all was that they were going out with girls that were definitely 'out of their league'.  I just wondering if by simply being a foreigner they were more appealing to Koreans.   *I'm now wondering if people are saying the same about Sarah and I, is she out of my league?* 
 
5. Seoul is definately a congested city and it is inevitable that people are going to bump into each other.  Perhaps that is why nobody uses the terms please, excuse me, or sorry.  Now I know I am guilty of overusing all three of these terms on a daily basis but it was strange to go
through two weeks of people bumping, pushing and stepping into you and not hear it said once.  I understand that its not part of the society, but it still felt wierd
April 15

Toronto the Good?

I have lived almost my entire life in the Toronto Area.  I'm not sure if it's due to luck or not but I have never really experienced blatant racism in the city.  This is not to say that I have never been in an uncomfortable situation (bad racial jokes) or received looks from employees when going shopping, but I think as a person of colour there are some things that come with the territory (like it or not).  I am not naive enough to think that Toronto is somehow different from other areas when it comes to intolerance but I always felt that people in the city kept their own stereotypes and beliefs to themselves or their friends.  In the past week there were two instances where I witnessed minorities involved in altercations with white men.  In both instances the comment 'if you don't like it then leave MY COUNTRY!’  Initially I laughed off these comments as being purely anger induced.  But after the second instance particularly I began to reflect on the comments and became increasingly upset. It made me realize that no matter how well-spoken I am and how much education I received or even the fact that I was born and raised in Canada; I will never be fully seen as a Canadian by some.  At first I was able to accept this reality, because I attributed these views to ignorance and felt that it couldn't possibly reflect the views of a larger segment of the population.  But why not? I will never know those who are of the opinion that this land belongs to 'them' and I should be somehow eternally indebted to the 'kindness' of those who 'allowed' my family to come to Canada (Ironically enough, both of my parents are from exploited former British colonies).  But what can I do? I know this view does exist but if you try to keep this in mind you will only respond by spewing the some hate-filled comments making you no better.  No solution here only more questions. 

 

February 24

My Cyworld Experience

As mentioned in a previous entry, I had heard good things about the korean social networking website (hey that s what Wikipedia calls it) Cyworld.  so when I found out an american/english version was announced I decided to give it a try.  Much like the other popular sites.   It offers blogging and the sharing of pictures/media.  The emphasis on creating a community is very evident.  Users are encouraged to decorate their site by creating rooms and characters.  When I ventured out into cyworld, the first thing I noticed was the lack of 'older' users (meaning those over age 19) As opposed to  the Korean version which has users spanning a wide rang of ages.  This didn't discourage me and I continued on using the site. Then something happened.......I recieved my first invite to become someones friend.  I don't know why but I actually felt happy that someone would deem my 'worthy' of adding me.   In the days that followed something strange began to happen.....I became consumed with the pursuit of attaining 'friends'. I would not consider myself a very socialble person, in fact i'm quite happy with a small circle of friends, but I found myself logging on constantly to see how many people visisted my site, what comments they left and if they added me to their friends list (only few actually did).  At some point, not sure exactly when, I realized that it was stupid and pointless to be be consumed with this quest to be 'popular'.  It was like some bad high school experience.  I still keep my account active but very rarely visit it, the site  does have many things going for such as its appealing look but until it increases its users it might eventually fade out (in the states that is).  Which made me wonder why a really hideous looking site like MySpace is still thriving and newer, better sties are struggling and I condluded that much like everything else in the market it is not always the best that succeeds but merely what has the biggest segment of the market.  MySpace was able to capture people for a variety of reasons and has been able to grow their brand making it more difficult for competitors to make significant progress.  It will be interesting to see if MySpace can continue to succeed as people become aware of alternatives.  As for Cywolrd would i reccommend it? I'm not sure but I think people should check it out
February 15

Toronto FC Yeah

I have always had a passion for soccer.  Whether it be my playing soccer or watching it on Television the sport has appealeed to me.  I'm not one of the many Canadians who simply tune in for the World Cup (nothing against those who do).  Being in Canada my focus has primarily been on English domestic soccer and Italian league soccer (Thank god for TLN).  But now I have another league to focus my enthusiasim wiht the addition of a Toronto based team, Major League Soccer.  I have dismissed the MLS as a minor league trying to compete with the 'big boys' of Europe, but ever since the Toronto franchise has been announced my curiosity has grown.  I know little about the players and teams due to the lack of exposure the league has had on TV (I want ESPN in Canada!).  However now that I have a vested intrest in the league I am anxious to learn more.  With the announcement of David Beckham joining the league in the upcoming season I can't wait to watch MY Toronto FC this season.
 
Visit http://toronto.fc.mlsnet.com for more info
January 03

New Years Resolution

I'm not one for making New Year's Resolutions because like many the chances of me following through on these promises is virtually nil.  But as a new year begins I do have one resolution that I am determined to keep.  For a variety of reasons I have lost contact with my friends from school.  Whether the cause was work, my girlfriend or simply pure lazyness I have lost touch the people whom I had formed friendships some of which are go back 15 years.  Whenever we meet up it seems that the conversation picks up exactly where it left off and we promise to meet more often but it never happens.  But this year I want to make sure the same pattern isn't repeated.  So I will make 2007 the year where I plan to renew my old friendships. 
November 09

Heroes

I haven't been able to watch as much TV as I'm use to recently, for a variety of reasons but I now have a new show that has moved into must watch territory. Heroes is the story of a group of individuals who for unknown reasons have begun to realize that they have extraordinary abilities, from controlling time, and visions of the future to  flying and power mimickry.  These individuals are supposed to come together to save the world from disaster.  The story is well written revealing little about each character every week and thus creating anticipation for the following week. The only problem is that if you miss a week you feel that you have missed a lot and it can be difficult to catch up but it also means that viewers will continue to tune in every week.  My favorite character thus far is Hiro, a Japanese salesman who appears to be a crucial figure in the plot.  In North America Heores is on Monday nights.
October 31

Cyworld Revisited

After observing the countless number of hours that some of Sarah's friends spend on the korean version of cyworld i had see what all the fuss was about.  I mean how much different can it really be?  So I ventured onto the American version of cyworld  http://us.cyworld.com/. To catch a peek and I have to admit it is very different!  The first thing you notice is the greater sense of community on the site.  The designers I think wanted to create a greater sense of community and I have to say that they were successful.  Each person is allowed to create a iconic representation of themselves and create a room which they are able to decorate (for a fee).  One would ask why would anyone want to pay money to do such a thing but after spending time on the site I felt the urge to do so myself.  And while the site does allow for a journal posting the focus appears to be on sharing and discussing the various pictures that are posted each user.  Another element that I found interesting is the use of socializing clubs that one can create and join.  There are a variety of categories and there is the potential to set up group meetings and organize events which I thought was useful.  The site in general does seem to be geared more to a younger age bracket but can still appeal to an older crowd.  As of now i will keep both accounts but I have to admit that cyworld does have the potential to be the next big thing.  I encourage people to check it out and see for themselves and maybe stop by to my site and say hello.
 
 
 
October 25

Congrats Trent Soccer

I would like to give a shout-out (Do people still give shout outs) to my little brother who is off Trent for his first year of University.  He is a member of the Mens Varsity Soccer team.   With a team filled with young players the team qualified for the playoffs and today were victorious over Laurentian by a score of 2-0.  While I was only able to see one game this year it was fairly entertaining.  I wish my brother good luck.  I also wish there was more coverage of University sports in Canada.  I know that University sports are not appealing to television stations because of the small numbers of viewers but I have to admit that I was pleasently surprised by the level of play.  I wish these players were given greater exposure because they obviously have some talent. Good luck the the Trent Men's and Women's soccer team, you've got one more fan in your corner. 
October 24

New mp3 Player

With the prospects of a new car non-existant and a desire to re-connect with my previous passion for listening to music, I decided to buy an mp3 plyaer.  I knew I wanted something that had some capacity (I like my music but 30gigs is ridiculous for me) but wasn't going ot cost me an arm and a leg.  Obviously I began with the Ipod, I always liked the way they looked but just like my personality I wanted to be a little different, a little outside of the box.  During my search I discovered the SanDisk e250.  It had everything that I was looking for and I decided to buy it.  I was a little apprehensive at first but having used it for a couple of weeks I have to say that I am fairly impressed with it.  It has a FM radio which might not sound like a big deal, but it can be useful.  I also like the screen and the size of the player itself.  I always found the Ipod a little too delicate looking for my liking by the e250 has enough size that you don't think that it will break everytime you touch it.  On the negative the device uses a thumbwheel simalar to the Ipod but the difference is that the wheel is mechanical and at times it feels that the wheel will wear out.  All in all I have to admit i'm happy with the Sandisk e250.  It cost a fraction of the Ipod and has worked very well for me.  
September 23

Cyworld Update

A little while earlier I wrote about the Korean website cyworld and how sarah and others suggested it was the greatest thing ever.  While killing some free time I came across an article about cyworld releasing an english version of their poplular website.  I didecided to check it out so I could judge the site myself.   So I went to http://us.cyworld.com and looked around briefly.  I think the main difference is a focus on creating a cyworld community.  The use of characters is creative  however it will be interesting to see if Americans will find some the cyworld options a little childish or too cute.  I think concept of having featured members who are looking to be seen by more people is smart and the use of clubs is brilliant however it will be interesting to see if the same problems myspace is facing with minors  will affect cyworld.  I think the site will appeal to all ages and I encourage people to have a look.  As of now the majority of members appear to have some previous knowledge about cyworld through its other sites so i'm sure they can answer any questions you have.  The one drawback is that users of the US version cannot communicate with users in other countries.  Hopefully they can fix this so that Cyworld can truly become a global community.
 
Visit
July 25

Expanding Minds

Living in North America , I like many others have a tendency to become consumed by the seemingly trivial struggles of life.  On the rare occasions that I listen, read or watch the various north American news media I get the feeling that the focus is on North America, Europe and recently the middle east.  For this reason I occasionly will watch BBC news to gain information from a different more global perspective.  Watching the news today I was captivated by a short segment about the Democratic Republic of congo.  I have only limited knowledge of this region of the globe but I think I have a better understanding the average North American (which Is close to nil).  I copied the article from the bbc website because I am not sure how long it stays on the website, please give it a read.  For more inf visit the bbc website http://news.bbc.co.uk.
 
 
By Karen Allen
BBC News, Masisi, Democratic Republic of Congo

Innocent, a former child soldier
Innocent was abducted when he was 10 years old

He looks not much older than 10.

But the boy in the baggy green uniform, eyeing us up suspiciously as we move through the village, represents one of the Democratic Republic of Congo's ugliest of legacies - the use of child soldiers.

Estimates put the number at 30,000.

Easy to train and even easier to hide, these children are too young to vote but old enough to carry a gun.

With historic elections just around the corner, these boys and girls - a third of those recruited are young girls - represent the enormous challenge that lies ahead, to stabilise a region that's long been rebel territory.

Soldiers' wives

Many militia groups have nothing to gain from these elections and uncertainty about the future is making it harder to persuade them to surrender the young back to the community.

Only last month a minibus was ambushed as it tried to take demobilised youngsters home; some of the victims of that incident are now in hiding.

They asked me if I was ready to sign, so what could I do - I didn't want to die.
Ndungutsa, former child soldier

In Masisi, in eastern DR Congo's north Kivu region, a range of militia, including remnants of Rwanda's Hutu patrol the hills around here and despite the presence of UN peacekeepers, the recruitment of children into armed groups continues with impunity.

Most of the children who have swollen the ranks of the militia and the fragmented Congolese army have been abducted from their villages.

Ndungutsa was taken when he was just 13 years old, forced to make a choice between the militia or death.

"When they came to my village, they asked my older brother whether he was ready to join the militia.

"He was just 17 and he said no; they shot him in the head.

"Then they asked me if I was ready to sign, so what could I do - I didn't want to die".

The youngsters are either taken on as fighters, porters or guards.

Boys in the village of Masisi
Many children in DR Congo remain at risk of abduction

For the girls, many end up as "soldiers' wives" or sex slaves, some as young as 10.

Try to speak to them and they respond in monosyllabic hushed tones.

These are youngsters who had their childhood innocence knocked out of them.

Quite literally.

A third of DR Congo's child soldiers will never be reintegrated back into their communities.

In some cases because of the shame, others simply because their families can't afford to take them on, but there are also the ever-present threats and intimidation.

Fresh hope

I accompanied 12 year-old Innocent as he made his way back home.

He was a fighter battling against the Mai Mai militia.

In his village, his mother and siblings embrace him but on the fringes of the celebrations the same militia that abducted him are looking on.

In a part of DR Congo where virtually all Innocent's fellow children are severely malnourished and in tattered clothing, a life with the rebels offers food, power and some status.

A sad reality is that all too often children like Innocent return.

Boys at prayer
Boys are seen as potential soldiers

So do elections bring fresh hope?

"Not at all" says Simon Muchanga from a Catholic mission in Masisi which seeks to rehabilitate child soldiers.

"The rebel groups are unlikely to alter their position because of the election.

"Maybe if a real, responsible government is elected with the capacity to bring about change and improve the prospects of these people, maybe then we can see some real progress".

It's an issue that has been largely ignored - recruiting juveniles is a breach of international law.

The world's biggest peacekeeping force has made some inroads into trying to disarm the rebels.

The vast scale of the country and years of insecurity makes it a painfully slow task.

With elections just days away, there is little incentive for the militia to hand over their children, not least because most armed groups will see their power eroded.

July 23

Dilemma

A relationship of any kind iis hard work because it is almost impossible to find someone that is 100% compatible with you.  Whether it be a friendship or something more the ability for accept each othe's irks, differences are essential to maintaining a positive and healthy bond (oh my god i'm sounding like some Dr. Phil reject).  The moment these differences become too much to bare the relationship is in trouble.  But what should be done when one individual starts to feel(whethere rational or not) that they are the ones who are making all the sacrifices and accepting of the other person to the point where you feel that you are losing a part of yourself.  How do you resolve this conflict? Do you confront the other person who may not even realize that they are making you feel this way do you simply continue to co-exist as you already are? ........